Often overlooked in the bedroom, a breast massage can really be a turn on for both partners. Women love the feel of the massage, and men love touching breasts so intimately. This is a great way to grow closer as a couple or even help your partner achieve orgasm. That’s right – some women can actually orgasm through breast massage alone. Even if your lover does not, this is still a great way to help her relax and turn her on so that a clitoris or g spot orgasm is possible.
Breast massage is best when done naked, but if you are not at that comfort level with your partner yet, you can start with touching over a shirt and bra (or just one or the other). Eventually, you want to work toward being comfortable nude together, since this will allow you to fully access her nipples and breasts during the massage.
Keep in mind that this massage is about her. While you might be very aroused by massaging her breasts, do not move too quickly to sex. This downplays the importance of her feelings and makes her feel rushed toward orgasm. Instead, spend lots of time with your massage, and consider making this part of a full-body Tantra massage. You should focus on relaxing her, not on moving as quickly as possible toward sex.
Learning Breast Massage Techniques
Learning breast massage techniques is not hard. You want to be gentle, yet firm with your touch. Pay attention to the whole breast, no matter how big or small, and be careful with the intensity around her nipples. Some women love when a man is rough with her nipples, even pulling or nipping on them, but others do not tolerate a lot of stimulation in this area. Stay in close communication so that you get the intensity level just right.
There are many different massage techniques you can learn, and as you perform them all, watch her face and listen to how she responds to each touch. One of the best reasons to have a long-term relationship with a woman, whether you are monogamous or not, is that you get to learn her body better and better each time you play. When you give her better orgasms, she will be eager to give you better orgasms as well.
Breast massage can stop there if you are not yet comfortable with one another, or you can move on to clitoris massage and even intercourse. Keep in mind also that you can use breast massage techniques during intercourse in most positions, which is a great way to increase the level of intensity during sex.
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